I pride myself on meeting people as who they are, not who they were,


Various media have mentioned a “mutual 
involvement with an adult film star” – is this book really just about a fight over a girl?

“When women go wrong, men go right after them.” –Mae West

There was a broken person at the center of our friendship that we both had feelings for. Like most men, for a long time I thought I had to rescue women. But being the white knight is exhausting, and my armor has been put away for some time. Because I was raised by my mother I have a great respect for women, and respect for women and pornography do not go hand in hand, in my opinion. In this case the woman in question was a vision of lust for many men, but our involvement with her was not the basis of the book.

When I originally set out to do this book there was a lot of malice in my heart, but one of the most important lessons I learned while doing the project was forgiveness. It’s funny because if you watch my Twitter feed you will occasionally see a big name adult film star “chime in.” This is a world I would barely know if not for Michael, but I think because I pride myself on meeting people as who they are, not who they were, I have lots of friends from different walks of life.


About bdehaven

DeHaven keeps his heart in Chicago and his soul in New Orleans-that's why he lives in Las Vegas. He holds a MBA from Tulane and a film degree from Columbia. Once ejected from a community college for arguing Frost's agenda in Birches, he has since written screenplays, traded futures in Madrid, and was Editor in Chief of the Nola Shopper Newspaper.(and enterprise Michael Enzo Bankrupt) He also has a "shout out" in a Jay "Z" Song. He and Michael Enzo were friends. http://bdehaven.com "A celebrity ghostwriter, you’ve never heard of, examining his own life of crushing addictions and alleged organized crime connections while struggling to present the truth behind our own behaviors." Author of Confessions of a Self-Help Writer (The Journal of Michael Enzo) the #1 Most Wished for Book of the Year on Indie Bound for over 14 weeks
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